Have you ever seen a hammer? Hammering your attention like nails. If you are the one holding the hammer, no problem, as long as you are in someone else's hand, you should avoid the hammer. Where you nail your attention can cause serious problems for you. If you have nailed somewhere you do not want, you can be exhibited on that unwanted wall that you have nailed until the end of your life. I don't think so, question the attractive person. If you are going to be nailed necessarily, be the one that much attractive.